Fighting against instincts

I had a moment today where I had to stop myself from running over towards my son, sweep him up into my arms, and prevent him from getting into something that I thought he wasn't suppose to. But I stopped myself. What was wrong with him exploring? Why was my first reaction to stop his inquisitiveness? What would that be teaching him? I didn’t like my reaction so I simply stopped in my tracks and instead I watched him closely.

October Fun with the Tungates

Anyone who knows me personally will tell you that I am a Summer kind of Gal. I love the warmth, the sunshine, and all the fun Summer memories to be created with friends and family. But I have recently discovered that the older I get, the more I am turning into a Fall lover. I mean, what is there not to love? It's not so miserably hot outside, which as a mother whose body has slowly transformed to despise itself, it is nice to not sweat too death every second of the day. The leaves are slowly dying and are turning into the beloved bright colors we look forward to all year long. Not to mention Holiday traditions. And that gets to my point about today's post, October Traditions with the Tungate Family. 

My Best Friend is a One Year Old

The topic of Friendship between a mother and child is such a touchy subject these days. Some parents reach out to their kids and hope for the “Lorelai and Rory” type relationship. Others believe that if they build a friendship with their child that they loose their authority.

Which way is the right way of parenting?